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Derek James Hartwell

1926 - 2017

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Sunday

July

Visitation

12:00 pm - 1:00 pm

Sunday, July 23, 2017

Donald V. Brown Funeral Home

36 Lake Avenue Drive

Stoney Creek, Ontario, Canada

(905) 662-2948

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Sunday

July

Memorial Service

1:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Sunday, July 23, 2017

Donald V. Brown Funeral Home

36 Lake Avenue Drive

Stoney Creek, Ontario, Canada

(905) 662-2948

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Eileen Wolfard posted a condolence

Sunday, May 20, 2018

I knew Derek through his sister-in-law, Mildred McKune. After Mildred’s death, Derek and I stayed in touch. He wrote wonderful letters. At Christmas time he would send me a Chanukah card in keeping with my faith. He was a kind and considerate man. He spoke of his family with great pride and admiration. He will be missed, but not forgotten.

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Garth Wetherall posted a condolence

Thursday, November 23, 2017

Graham and Family I think of your Father Derek often and visit the graves of your mom and Ian. I only learned of his death today. It saddens me to think back on memories of them all. Your mom and dad meant so much to me in my younger years. Ian was one of my very closest friends in life that was taken from us, far too soon. My parents are both gone now also. One thing is for sure, the Hartwell name will alway's be part of life. God Speed Derek!

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gary caddy posted a condolence

Monday, July 24, 2017

Graham and family. sad to hear about the passing of your Father, my heart felt condolences to you all . Gary Caddy and family

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The Hanson Family posted a condolence

Sunday, July 23, 2017

Our deepest sympathies to each of you. I truly enjoyed my talks with Derek on the soccer field sidelines over the years. He was a lovely man. Hugs Wade, Heather and family

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George Eastwood posted a condolence

Sunday, July 23, 2017

The Hartwell's was at times my home away from home as I was growing up. I remember the kind generosity of Derek and Bette ("Mr and Mrs. Hartwell" to me), consistently there, as I shared youthful adventures with Ian and Graham. Thank you.

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Valerie Reed posted a condolence

Sunday, July 23, 2017

Derek was my elder brother, 17 years older than me. It is strange how, although we spent so little time together, he was still part of my life. As Alan and Barbara have mentioned, he was doing his National Service abroad when I was little, living at home again for a short period, and then got married. He and Betty lived for a while in a house in the same street as us in Ashtead, Surrey,, and Barbara and I, aged only about 5 or 6 and 8 or 9, often used to walk down the road to see Derek and Betty. Very soon after, he and Betty emigrated to Australia. Although I have seen Derek only twice since then - once in England in the early 1960s and once in Australia when Mum turned 80 - we kept in touch. I remember Derek as a gregarious and fun-loving person, but with a serious and responsible side, and an achiever. Despite the distance between us, and lack of face to face contact, he leaves a big hole in my life.

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Barbara Sutherland posted a condolence

Saturday, July 22, 2017

There is nearly 20 years' difference between Derek and me. He was the first and I was the last. I think I was about 7-8 years old when Derek and Betty went off for a better life in Canada and in those days (1950's) travel was not so easy as it is now. My memories of Derek are therefore patchy. I remember he took us all out to dinner when he came over one time after our Dad had died. I think I was 10 years old and for the first time in my life, I went out to a restaurant! He was a hero! I remember him next when we all went to Australia for Mum's 80th birthday and although he was poorly with an infection he had caught on the aeroplane, I enjoyed getting to know him. I was about 40 and he must have been 60.. All the family was there and he stood back and watched us all carrying on and just smiled. He was an observer and took it all in. Always very relaxed. Alan Eileen and I came to stay before he left his house and I think this was when I really got to know him. He was always interested in everyone and very modern in his thinking. The last time was just Alan and me. Alan stayed with him and I was down the road. Even when he could not go far without his scooter he was always fun and entertaining. Ready to join in with anything and everyone. He got the most out of his life and was very close to Graham, Paula and the two girls. He talked a lot about them (all good!) and we had many long chats together. I am so sorry we didn't have the chance to meet one more time. I will miss him. Love to all the family Barbara

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Barbara Jane Eastwood posted a condolence

Saturday, July 22, 2017

Graham, Please accept my sincere condolences. I remember your Dad with much fondness. Both of your parents were such an important part of my youth.

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Alan Haratwell posted a condolence

Saturday, July 22, 2017

COOL, CALM AND COLLECTED Derek was three years old than me and we grew up together throughout the war. We were evacuated out of Battersea to Devon, but hated it and our Uncle Fred gave us the money to catch a train home. We stayed there throughout the Blitz. I remember going on huge cycle rides all day long with him and his friends . Derek was far more sporty than I was and when he took up ice skating - he left me behind! At 18 years old Derek was called up to serve in the armed forces, joined the paratroopers but unfortunately broke his leg when landing in Palestine. So that brought him home to help in our father's butcher's shop but also to study engineering. We both married very young and soon after Derek married Betty, they emigrated to Canada. He had to train again as an engineer as his degrees were not recognised out there! After they emigrated, meetings between us were sporadic but we were always in touch. Derek suffered the loss of his eldest son and later his wife Betty but he always was unflappable, whatever life threw at him. Graham did a great job of looking after Derek as he grew older; he found the retirement home when it became too difficult for him to stay at home alone. And they were together every week. Derek took it in his stride and got on with life. I shall miss talking to him on the phone and not having another chance to see him. RIP Derek. Love Alan

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Friday, July 21, 2017

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Kathy Birnie posted a condolence

Friday, July 21, 2017

My condolences to Graham, Paula, Laura and Charlotte on the passing of your father and grandfather. Mr. Hartwell was a kind and lovely gentleman. Take care. Kathy Birnie and family

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Thursday, July 20, 2017

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Wednesday, July 19, 2017

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Wednesday, July 19, 2017

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Roddie carr posted a condolence

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

My Heart goes out to you and your family Graham , as you know you are a very dear long time friend and I send to you a big heart hug In this sadden time. Your Dad was a great man and I had the greatest respect for him . He watched us grow up into the men we have become and I am sure that he took with him the Pride to know that you grew into the Husband and father you did. I am sure he is resting peacefully Knowing this. I am thinking and praying for you that as this time passes you carry with it fond and loving memories of Your Dad and the time you spent together. I hope the Good Lord will give you all an extra measure of His almighty grace and compassion during this sadden time. Your Dad has now entered eternal Glory in Heaven . I am sure that Your Dad , Has hooked up with My Mom and Dad , and they are enjoying a well earned rest in Gods Gracious arms . I hope that you find it comforting to know that your Dad is now in great comfort and is able to watch over you and your family . We as people take different paths in your lives and we all end up scatted around the country, but one thing that keeps all of us bonded together no matter where we end up is the fact that we have touched one another souls . This bond will forever be our tie together even if its a fond thought or memory of days gone by. We are holding you in our thoughts and hearts at this time and always, Roddie and Kim ,Lindsey/Matt/Mya and Lucas. ( Love Always )

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William & Vivien Woodward posted a condolence

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

My wife and I are greatly sadden to hear of the passing of Derek. We wish to extend our sincerest condolences to all of his family. Our association with Derek was though the model gilder club,SOGGI. We remember his love of his family and his love of life. Our late friend, Fred Freeman would often tell us of the dry humorous stories Derek would tell when He,Fred and Dick Colley would attend the the Legion Friday Fish Fry. He will be greatly missed by us and many others he has known. Bill & Vivien Woodward.

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Ruth & Phil Van Horne posted a condolence

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

Phil and I send our sympathy and condolences to Derek's son Graham and all the rest of his family. Phil worked with Derek at Stelco for many years. Then we saw him often with his lovely wife Betty at Stelco Park and ironically we ended up living at Caroline Place and got reacquainted with Derek. We knew him as a kind and gentle man and know that his passing will leave a huge empty spot in the lives of those who love him. Unfortunately we will be unable to attend the memorial service on Sunday and feel badly about that. Again, sincere sympathy and condolences. Ruth & Phil Van Horne

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D. Taylor posted a condolence

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

I was Derek's care coordinator in the community through CCAC and feel privileged to have had the opportunity to meet Mr. Hartwell (your dad) on a few occasions. I immensely enjoyed his stories of his life, his time overseas and experiences during the awful time of war. He most enjoyed talking about his Sunday dinners at his son's home and how proud he was of his grandchildren. It was truly my honor to have been able to meet your dad/grand dad and learn about his historical brave past and his family. Sincere condolences.

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